Charismatic people..

Charismatic people means is not how well they dress up in all their branded and costly clothing or how well they do in their life or how well the do their presentation. Charismatic people have some remarkably some good habits such as:-

1. Charismatic people listen way more than they talk

2. Charismatic people put all their stuff away such as no phone, no laptop or anything. They don't even  glance at anything  and they focus on those who communicating with them

3. Charismatic people don't practice selective hearing, they listen to everyone

4. Charismatic people don't act self-important

5. Charismatic people shine the spot light on others

6. Charismatic people choose their words

7. Charismatic people don't discuss the falling of others

8. Charismatic people readily admit their failings

Get answers to your prayers

I see many people praying, they spend many hours in it. However does all their Prayer been answered? Below are the some guidance for all:-

• Believe you receive when you pray!
• Get involved in helping someone
• Refuse to allow doubt and fear to enter your consciousness
• See yourself as success, not failure
• Be a giver, if someone need healing, then give the message healing to someone else

DCM tips for success....

Now days everyone wants to be rich and many people lost million pounds, to get rich fast. Here are some tips for everyone:-

1. Understand the big difference between working for someone else and working for yourself. When you work for yourself, you earn your true worth.
2. Understand that to build a real business takes time and money. The only way to get rich quick is to rob a bank or win a lottery...but i don't recommend to do both.
3. Do not expect to get rich in any business in less than 5 years ( unless facebook, google )
4. Plan realistic short term and long term goals
5. Determine your real reason for starting your own business.... DCMvalue ( a training provider company www.dcmvalue.com were started,  to build a harmonious society in fast changing world.
6. Consistent effort and never give up
7. Have a mentor, follow someone who is already successful

Humour - Understanding men

1. " I am not lost, I know exactly where we are "

      Translated - No one will ever see us alive again

2. " You look terrific "

       Translated - Oh! please don't try one more outfit, i am starving

3.  " Its a guy thing "

       Translated - There is no rational thought pattern connected with it and you have no chance at all make 

        it logical.

4. " Can i help with dinner "

      Translation - Why isn't it already on table?

5. " Uh Huh...Sure Honey...or Oh Yes Dear "

       Translate - Absolutely nothing. Its a conditioned response

6. " It would take too long to explain "

      Translate - I have no idea how it works

7. " I was listening to you. Its just that i have things in my mind "

      Translate - The girl standing on the corner is real babe

8. " That's interesting dear "

       Translate - Are you still talking?

9. " Take a break honey, you really working too hard "

      Translate - I can't hear the game over the vacuum cleaner

10. " What did I do this time "

         Translate - What did you catch me at ?

The Meaning of Life......

On the 1st day GOD created dog and said..........

Sit all day by the door of your house and bark at anyone who comes in or walk past. For this I will give you life span of 20 years.
The dog said " That's a long time to be barking, How about only 10 years and I will give you back the other 10 years "
SO GOD AGREED !!




On the 2nd day GOD created monkey and said.....

" Entertain people, do tricks and make them laugh, for this I give you 20 years life span "
The monkey said " Monkey tricks for 20 years, that;s pretty long time to perform...  how about I give you back 10 years like dog did ? "
SO GOD AGREED !!




On the 3rd day GOD created cow and  said.....

" You must go into the field with the farmer all day long and suffer under the sun, have calves and give milk to support the farmer's family " For this i will give you life span of 60 years.

The cow said... " That kind of tough life, you want me to live for 60 years? How about 20 and i give you back the other 40.....
And GOD AGREED AGAIN....................




On the 4th day GOD created human and said.....

" Eat, sleep. play, marry and enjoy your life..... for this i give you 20 years "
But the human said... " only 20 years? could you possibly give my 20. the 40 the cow gave back, the 10 monkey gave back and the 10 dog gave back....that make 80 OKAY? "

" OKAY " said GOD.... " YOU ASKED FOR IT "



So my dear friends, that why the 1st 20 years... we eat, play and enjoy ourselves. For the next 40 years, we slave in the sun to support our family. The next 10 years we do monkey tricks to entertain our grandchildren and the last 10 years we sit at front porch and bark at everyone......

Life has now been explained to you......

The secret of achieving wealth....

 The secret to achieving wealth ......

Fundamental Rule of money :-

1. MAKE MORE MONEY THAN YOU SPEND

2. SPEND LESS THAN YOU MAKE

3. DON'T BE AVERAGE AND OVER CONSUME

4. KEEP MORE OF THE MONEY YOU MAKE, IN ORDER TO LEVERAGE THAT INTO ASSETS

* Don't over complicate wealth building.........keep it simple



To live financially healthy :-

SPENDING - If you buy things you don't need, you'll soon sell things you need

SAVINGS - Don't save what is left after spending, spend what is left after savings

HARD-WORK - All hard work brings profit but mere talk leads only poverty

LAZINESS - A sleeping lobster is carried away by the water current

EARNINGS - Never depend on a single source of Income

BORROWINGS - The borrower become lender's slave

ACCOUNTING - Its no use carrying an umbrella, if your shoes are leaking

AUDITING - Beware of little expenses; a small leak can sink large ship

RISK - TAKING - Never test the depth of the river with both feet

INVESTMENT - Don't put all your eggs in one basket

Law of attractions....

    LAW OF ATTRACTIONS !!!!!!



        LAW OF ATTRACTIONS !!!!!


Law of attractions is always responding to the vibrations that we were sending :

4 stages cycle to help you understand, why deliberate attraction is an important skill to practice:-

Stage 1 - You observe what you are attracting in any moment of your life

Stage 2 - While observing what you are attracting, you are offering a corresponding vibration

Stage 3 - What ever offered deliberately or non deliberately in every moment. The Law of attraction is checking in with your vibration

Stage 4 - The Law of attracting then gives you more of whatever you are offering vibration-ally

Lets practice and get all the benefit..

You're never too old to Learn

Kimani Nganga Maruge, at the age of 84 became the oldest person to enroll in primary school as he was anxious to read and do maths. He wanted to read bible and keep track on his small pension.

Guinness Book holder as the oldest person to enroll in primary school.

Kimani believed that it never too late to study...never too late to achieve dream...never too late to challenge yourself beyond the comfort zone...

Success through Recognizing FAILURE......

Gosh why everyone gets upset when they meet failure? Too bad Failure is some how is a unwanted guest in everyone's life....As a result many don't know how to react when failure comes in their own life. Everyone learned from a very young age how to avoid failure and try how to ignore it when it occurs. They have learned that failure can just swept aside and not dealt with or reflected upon.

Recognizing your failure is one of the best way to grow, you are better able to understand yourself. Also by treating each and every failure by learning experience, you can make failure a positive experience. This doesn't mean that you will want to fail, but by turning failure into something good, you can reduce the pain of failure.

By recognizing that failure is just part of learning process, individual can overcome one of the biggest roadblocks to success. Take time to recognize all of your failures, by doing this you will be able to grow whereby many individuals avoided.

By developing a healthy attitude towards failure, the fear of risk lowered which encourage people to attempt things that contribute towards their success.

Hemmm!! you can make failure to destroy you or use it as springboard to make yourself stronger than before.

Things happen for reason.....

Everyone complaint a lot if whatever they have planned, never take place... Oh!! its my bad luck..Its the year  I born...this year is snake year, according to Chinese calender and its not going to favor me... so the complaint and unpleasant events keep going on....

I read about this lady's story and her story really impressed me, a very poor in Dallas, America supporting her small child as a single mum. Fortunately she found a job as a secretary and unfortunately she doesn't know shorthand and typing skills. She learnt everything to keep her job. Yet she constantly making typing errors. She was an artist and she recalled how artist would paint over their mistakes on canvas.

She decided to put some tempera water-based paint in bottle and took her water-color brush to the office, using it to correct her typing mistakes. Here her invention is called " LIQUID PAPER " became a world- wide hit and she built a multi-million dollar corporation. The person who created this is Bette Nesmith Graham.

   

There were thousands of secretaries who probably went through typing error but no one took it as an opportunity to create a solution.This shows that no one can control every outcome  but by taking action, we can increase the probability of our success..

Be What You Want To Be..

A little girl who was born into a very poor family in a shack in the Backwoods of Tennessee. She was the 20th of 22 children, prematurely born and frail. Her survival was doubtful. When she was four years old she had double pneumonia and scarlet fever - a deadly combination that left her with a paralyzed and useless left leg. She had to wear an iron leg brace. Yet she was fortunate in having a mother who encouraged her. 

Well, this mother told her little girl, who was very bright, that despite the brace and leg, she could do whatever she wanted to do with her life. She told her that all she needed to do was to have faith, persistence, courage and and indomitable spirit. 


So at nine years of age, the little girl removed the leg brace, and she took the step the doctors told her she would never take normally. In four years, she developed a rhytmic stride, which was a medical wonder. Then this girl got the notion, the incredible notion, that she would like to be the world's greatest woman runner. Now, what could she mean - be a runner with a leg like that? 


At age 13, she entered a race. She came in last - way, way last. She entered every race in high school, and in every race she came in last. Everyone begged her quit! However, one day, she came in next to last. And then there came a day when she won a rece. From then on, Wilma Rudolph won every race that she entered. 

Wilma went to Tennessee State University, where she met a coach named Ed Temple. Coach Temple saw the indomitable spirit of the girl, that she was a believer and that she had great natural talent. He trained her so well that she went to the Olympic Games. 

There she was pitted against the greatest woman runner of the day, a German girl named Jutta Heine. Nobody had ever beaten Jutta. But in the 100-meter dash, Wilma Rudolph won. She beat Jutta again in the 200-meters. Now Wilma had two Olimpic gold medals.

Finally came the 400-meter relay. It would be Wilma against Jutta once again. The first two runners on Wilma's team made perfect handoffs with the baton. But when the third runner handed the baton to Wilma, she was so excited she dropped it, and Wilma saw Jutta taking off down the track. It was impossible that anybody could catch this fleet and nimble girl. But Wilma did just that! Wilma Rudolph had earned three Olympic gold medals.